Of course, why he would be controlling is to eliminate possibilities of things going wrong in the relationship.
It isn't because he needs to control, it is because, without some type of structure or agreement, any things can go wrong with the girlfriend cheating on him with another man or vice versa.
Stalking is a form of dating violence in which the victim is under constant surveillance.This can later become a bigger problem and lead physical or sexual abuse.Everyone experiences jealousy to a certain degree in a relationship.Lauri Revilla has been writing articles on mental health, wellness, relationships and lifestyle for more than six years.She moved to San Antonio, Texas, from Mexico in 2006."Anybody who doesn't hear the word "no" is trying to control you," says security expert and author Gavin de Becker. Persistence means he is troubled." A relationship in which one person always has to get her way is unfair and unbalanced.You can notice persistence early in the relationship if your partner never lets you choose anything and doesn't seem interested in your wants and needs.Often, an obsessive person chooses to rush things to have more control over the other person and to have a sense that the other person is somehow trapped and has less opportunity to leave the relationship.If your partner is constantly trying to control you, it can be a warning sign that you might be in a potentially dangerous relationship.Its normal to start fantasizing about the future early in the relationship.It can signal a problem when one person wants to rush into the relationship too soon.