Sometimes the venue is an epic mansion in San Francisco’s Pacific Heights; sometimes it’s a lavish home in the foothills of Atherton or Hillsborough.
On special occasions, the guests will travel north to someone’s château in Napa Valley or to a private beachfront property in Malibu or to a boat off the coast of Ibiza, and the bacchanal will last an entire weekend.
Big Poppa was, ironically enough, married to another woman named Kim at the time he was funding Kim Zolciack's opulent lifestyle — you know, buying her Range Rovers and such.The glorified house tour revealed that Big Poppa and his wife Kim (Najjar) have two separate televisions installed under the canopy of their king-size bed, that Lee bought his daughter Katelin the same white Range Rover he bought Kim Zolciak, and that he had his own room called the "gentleman's pub." The mansion also featured an in-house salon, home theater, music studio, and an outdoor living room space equipped with a Hibachi stovetop.Big Poppa and his two kids appearing on _Teen Cribs_.“At normal tech parties, there are hardly any women.At these kinds of party, there are tons of them.”I believe there is a critical story to tell about how the women who participate in these events are often marginalized, even if they attend of their own volition.(Photo Credit: MTV) "We didn't mean to make it this luxurious house or be better than anybody else. Just because we've accomplished this doesn't put us above anybody.And all the children know that," Big Poppa said in the episode.Like Julian Assange denouncing the nation-state, industry hotshots speak of these activities in a tone that is at once self-congratulatory and dismissive of criticism.Their behavior at these high-end parties is an extension of the progressiveness and open-mindedness—the audacity, if you will—that make founders think they can change the world.In some scenarios, the ratio of women to wealthy men is roughly two to one, so the men have more than enough women to choose from.“You know when it’s that kind of party,” one male tech investor told me.