When asked about relationships, they will often avoid the issue by saying I’m just having fun, not looking for anything serious, etc.It’s important to note this is not necessarily what they want, but they use these lines to differentiate themselves from the “marry me” mentality, which they see as a weakness.In a way, these women take on the man role, so it’s absolutely paramount that you treat them as an exact equal.They love talking about their work and are generally more knowledgeable than most women you meet.This provides you with the opportunity to keep your current partner (the one you supposedly love and maybe have kids with) while having the occasional sexual encounter with your other (and maybe younger) woman.In a situation where you have a wife and kids (or a very demanding girlfriend), it’s very hard to sleep with random women constantly, as this is a very time-consuming process. You only need to put in the effort once, and then you can go back to her whenever you want.You need to judge that based on your conversations. Mistresses are easy to keep as long as you somewhat make them believe you will leave your wife/girlfriend.
Basically, these are women who want to do everything by themselves and don’t need a man to take care of them.If you can demonstrate outstanding maturity from the beginning, things will go fairly well.You need to show them you are intelligent, maybe even more intelligent than them.However, due to my work, I had the good fortune of meeting quite a few of these women (and men) throughout my life.Many might believe any woman can be turned into a mistress. A real mistress is the one who knows you have a main relationship and knows her place as a mistress in your life.These women are also prone to falling for older men because they think everyone their age is immature.If you are her age, you need to demonstrate outstanding maturity and never offer to take care of her.If they are over 30, it will be increasingly difficult to keep them as a mistress, or you might just find them getting pregnant because they want a kid.Picking up one of these women is not going to be difficult.It’s something that is genetically embedded into our DNA, and it can only be controlled by sheer will and determination.I have never been forced into this situation mostly because I always made things clear from the beginning and have stepped into casual relationships that allowed me to have multiple sex partners at the same time.