It’s like saying they know you as well as you know you, so they don’t ask, they assume, and may even tell how you think and feel.Misunderstanding What it Means to Validate: Sometimes people invalidate because they believe if they validate they are agreeing. " "Because my mother-in-law's arriving tomorrow, and I don't want anything to make her think she's welcome."A presser in a tailor shop arrived one morning wearing a good sized diamond ring.
Some believe that invalidation is a major contributor to emotional disorders.
Approaching the owner and he asks him: "What happened here, man?
One of the tailors noticed the sparkler and asked about it.
Or they encourage you to make friends with someone who is influential when you don’t really enjoy the person, telling you that that person is a great friend when it’s not true. She’ll be a good friend to you.” There are also many different ways of invalidating. Blaming: “You always have to be the crybaby, always upset about something and ruin every holiday.” “Why didn’t you put gas in the car before you got home?
You never think and always make everything harder.” Blaming is always invalidating.