When he needs connection or the fantasy of a relationship, he can effectively “order out” for a date.
Just Looking He fantasizes about a beautiful love life or sex life but has too much anxiety to actually let any potential connection leave his protective computer screen.
He realizes that the easiest way to access older women is online.
He is typically at the age of sexual discovery and imagines that older women are not only more experienced and enticing, but more available as well.
Rather, he moves from one online-created connection to the next, or back and forth between many, and barely if ever have to leave the house.
Internet dating enables him not to engage in a meaningful way.